Monday, February 13, 2012
Dae: Yes, but then she would complain that i never get her any flowers or candy or chocolates and my coworker got a GIANT bouquetwhydon'tyoueverdoanythingthoughtfulformewhyisitsohardtofindagoodmannotthatyouaren'tagoodmanbutyoucouldbemorethoughtfulwoulditKILLYOUtobealittlemorethoughtfulespeciallyafterallthosebedroomthingsidoforyouevenwheni'mnotinthemoodireallydon'tthinkit'sthatbigadealbutifyouwanttogowatchthesportsballgamewithyourbuddiesfinei'lljuststayhereandbesadandalonebecausethat'swhatyoureallywantanyhowisn'titohmygodishouldhavemarriedJames.
MJ: Let me tell it to you this way: Don't waste money on a day when romance is EXPECTED. Obligation does not equal romance. Send her a simple bouquet of flowers on some random day of the year with a note that says, "Just Because." Then she will appreciate you. And that's much more adventurous than "Ohgreatit'sFebruary14thIhopeI canstillfindacardandflowersathegrocerystoreonmywayhomefromwork."